Its a very common behavior among many of us and I really wonder why it is that way? You can only enjoy what is yours and nothing comes without effort. It may be wealth,credibility or prestige, all the development in life only comes with effort, except the interest that you pay on your loan or sins that you do which do not need any effort to grow.
Today I heard something that is so disturbing. Parents take enormous joy in rising their kids and look upto them when they grow up. They feel proud of their success.When it comes to a girl child there is a little bit of wavery attitude towards this. Can you believe it, there are still people supposedly educated people who think a girl gets married easily if she doesn't earn much or is less educated? Education gives consciousness about environment and work provides the skills to survive in any kind of environment.Work can be any kind of work whether you are paid or not paid . But to get paid for doing the work is always awesome.
And wedding should not be considered something that hinders this process. Its a major thing that you get a good partner to lead the rest of your life but it is equally important to have a person who admires what you are and respects your place of interest. A girl should be proud to have a degree besides her name and happy to enjoy her financial freedom. No one including her parents can take this away from her. I really hope for a better world where she will be treated as an achiever but not a loser. When a kid is brought up with appreciation she will be confident and reach greater heights. I admire my father who says that girls should be independent. kudos Nannagaru.
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